i may seem like an angry person on the surface but deep inside im actually angrier
The next man who goes “ooh that’s so sexy I bet you have a lot of lingerie do you model it” when I say I design lingerie is getting chopped in the throat. Don’t sexualize my career! It’s not about your dick! I’m not designing to turn you on!
the worst thing is that there will be men (and women) who don’t get this—they will not be able to wrap their minds around women wearing or designing something sexy just because it is fulfilling for them to do so.